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I like the sun… but i love the moon and the stars..  Yes, the moment of the day i like the most is the Night. Its not that i like the dark sides…no.. I prefer to say: i search for the light in the darkness. 


What i like about the night is the silence…the melody in that silence.. May be what i am saying does not make sense to you..but it does to me *smile*  I feel that during the night [mo p mean tard dan la nuit la..pa 20 00 21 00] *lol* everything is calm, and nature is being natural..there is no car disturbing the soil, no lorry creating noise.. Listening to that silence sometimes brings me so much comfort..the solitude at night has a certain sweetness.

Am a dreamer..i dream,i often dream open eyes during the night when i look at the stars. Sometimes i feel like a teenager, waiting for a shooting star to make a wish. Dreaming is so nice…but we should all live in the reality.  Sometimes, i feel the night can better “understand” pain, sorrow. How many among us have cried at night?  

I don’t know for you guys, but i can better revise at night. Its different for different people, of course. There are many reasons i love the night…but i enjoy the day [i prefer swimming during the day!! surtout dan la mer!! *lol*]  

Share your views!! 😛



Life…life shows us so many things..some nice, pleasant, cool..others sad, horrible, hideous.


Can we all accept life as it comes? Like when we see a beggar, should we feel sad about it, or just accept it? I am young, but i have encountered quite a lot of situations [like all of us here], i have seen many things, i have heard many things.

Some have been accepted automatically, like being born in a family which caters for my needs and wants…but some i could not accept, like failing in my AccA paper with 48 marks. That day, i was shocked. But then, i accepted it. Failure is not an excuse to stop…but a challenge to show that i can do it, and i will do it much better next time.

Some of my friends still cannot accept that their x-gf/bf is now with someone else. I totally agree its really hard to digest..  *the person who used to whisper “i love you” in your ears..is now saying the same thing to someone else*  This hurts. But i think that it is better to stop clinging to the past and accept it that s/he has found someone else. It does not necessarily mean that you have to stop loving!! Love should be without conditions.


I once thought that “this is stupid!! How can i accept someone who cheated on me??”  But then i realised, “Well, i have loved and he kinda played with that… So, it aint my fault if i am better!!” 

Sometime, when we accept a situation, its better. Its only then that we can move on!! If we continue complaining, we are clinging to that thing..that very thing we cannot change…




Today i woke up, wondering what can i blog about.. Nothing special is happening in life, am still at home-Not joined uni yet [i’ve extended my holidays *lol*]

HiHi.. And then.. i thought of what i wanted to eat.. Yep!! Chocolates!!!!!!!!! I want chocolates!! And now am going to talk about Chocolates!! I love chocolates!! [with moderation..we cant eat those sweeeeetthings everyday!!] Actually, chocolates have both good and bad effects. Everything taken [consumed] in excess is proven bad for health. So, let’s see those good things about chocolates!!

It is scientifically proven that dark chocolates which are loaded with flavonoids can keep the doctor away!! *Flavonoids keep cholesterol from gathering in blood vessels, reduce the risk of blood clots, and slow down the immune responses that lead to clogged arteries.* Actually what many people don’t realise is that Chocolates are plant-derived [ which are recommended for a good heart]. Dark chocolates have the following “strengths”  :

      1. they are a natural source of antioxidants * the latter being  substances that may protect your cells against the effects of free radicals. Free radicals are molecules produced when your body breaks down food, or by environmental exposures like tobacco smoke and radiation. Free radicals can damage cells, and may play a role in heart disease, cancer and other diseases. *

    2.  they act as natural mild stimulants * they stimulate our brain, providing a certain balance and increase our attention capacity*  [pa blier pren ene ti chocolat quand ena pu ale fer banes class imP dificile..lol] 

    3. choco contribute to enhance the sense of well-being

Now!! Lets see the B.A.D of chocolotes!! *Aryooo* lol

We should remember that chocolates are still loaded with calories. And the human body can react badly to those excessive calories. For overweight persons, daily chocolates are bad. This may cause damage to their joints. If someone is allergic to chocolates, consuming those will result in sweelings. *aww*. One more thing. People might not become physically addicted to chocolates, but Emotionally. This is so because theylove the flavour and texture of the chocolates melting in the mouth.. *vrai ca selmnt :s*

Anyway, people!! You should remember that for a good health, we all need a balanced diet, good exercise, a little bit of dark chocolates!! lol






Every human are possessive about the things or people they cherish. Note that there is a difference between possessiveness and Jealousy.

>”Possession poses a universal question regarding the right or ability of an entity to own anything more than their own self determination.”

>”The emotion of jealousy arises from a basic insecurity rooted in a desperation of need of either validation or security.  When one experiences jealousy, they experience a lack of understanding of the pure dynamic of inter-relationship at a foundational level.”

I think being jealous and possessive is human. But we should also consider the degree of possessiveness.. In a relationship for example, If someone is being possessive to the extent of controlling you rather than loving you, it will end up in disaster. It leads to insecurity. Feeling insecure in a relationship is something we all fear. In any relationship, in any circumstance.


I believe in the truth..but should we always say the truth?!! I have come across many situations in my life [till now] where i asked whether i should speak wotever i feel is right and true. Life has shown me [till now] that people hear what they want to hear, and see what they want to see… I have known people trying to escape the truth..or simply just creating another world for themselves.. And many of those people r my friends…some are people i just know..some are special people.. And when they ask my advice i always try to put things the way it is…

But the thing is…do they listen to you? Do they rily care what you saying…? Does it make any difference? Being frank i think is not what people really want..or do  they? Or is it my approach? In the end..i feel nothing what i say really matters!!

But i should admit that there r some people who do want to know the truth..and they kind of accept that truth..

Anyway..do tell me what u fink!!

** Vish


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