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Every human are possessive about the things or people they cherish. Note that there is a difference between possessiveness and Jealousy.

>”Possession poses a universal question regarding the right or ability of an entity to own anything more than their own self determination.”

>”The emotion of jealousy arises from a basic insecurity rooted in a desperation of need of either validation or security.  When one experiences jealousy, they experience a lack of understanding of the pure dynamic of inter-relationship at a foundational level.”

I think being jealous and possessive is human. But we should also consider the degree of possessiveness.. In a relationship for example, If someone is being possessive to the extent of controlling you rather than loving you, it will end up in disaster. It leads to insecurity. Feeling insecure in a relationship is something we all fear. In any relationship, in any circumstance.


I believe in the truth..but should we always say the truth?!! I have come across many situations in my life [till now] where i asked whether i should speak wotever i feel is right and true. Life has shown me [till now] that people hear what they want to hear, and see what they want to see… I have known people trying to escape the truth..or simply just creating another world for themselves.. And many of those people r my friends…some are people i just know..some are special people.. And when they ask my advice i always try to put things the way it is…

But the thing is…do they listen to you? Do they rily care what you saying…? Does it make any difference? Being frank i think is not what people really want..or do  they? Or is it my approach? In the end..i feel nothing what i say really matters!!

But i should admit that there r some people who do want to know the truth..and they kind of accept that truth..

Anyway..do tell me what u fink!!

** Vish

Wel, the party was great. I was nt impressd with food..bt i liked the dancefloor!! We [Mwa, kovil, pri, Daks, Ritesh, Nikhil, Doorvesh, Sunju] danced.. the music was gud!! The tecktonik demonstration was simply great!!

We were droped by the bro of Daks *Thxx  loads **

Finally, we r happy…!! An impossible-to-forget-day

PS I missd varsh much

Elo all!! Am back!! hihi Been a lng tme!!

Anyway, i wantd to share this “impossible-to-forget” day!! pluto night..enfin!! Its about my first End of year party at University of Mauritius, which was held on Friday, 18 july, 17 30 to 22 00. Actually, it was very much unplaned. I was nt sure of going, coz none of my frnds were talking bout it. But i missd the first two dance parties nd i did not want to miss this one!! [i love dancing, hihi]. Just the day before, that is the 17, Ritesh  asked me if am going. *confused* I have not told mah dad yet!! Then i decided, if i dun’t do anyfing, i won’t b able to go. I askd kovila if she’s going… she sed No *confuzd confuzd* YYYY?? Parents wnt give permission?? No!! coz no gud dress!! The dress code was Black and Orange [Orange was sponsoring] Hihi!! Wel, since shez mah neighbour, i wnt to her house, found smfing very nice [she did have lots of nice clothes]. She finally agreed on a black skirt nd a beige top.But still, we were nt yet sure coz we have not askd our parents. One of our biggest problm was: Convine parents. [We were 3 gurls, staying late night].

Then her mom came..nd we actually convinced her!! hihi I went back home nd asked Priyanka if she’s coming. She was surprised coz we were on the very eve!! But  she sed she is coming if all is ok!! Pri also had the problem of outfit. Coz she thought she had no black clothes. I reminded her of a black trouser she bought. lol. But the biggest problem for us was Transport *fuff* The problem is dat mah dad was doing night shift, nd the car of kovil’s dad had a breakdown!! Mah dad proposed that he leaves the car nd kovil’s dad come to fetch us 21.00 at university [We live quite far from uni]. But, another problm cropped up!! Kovil’s dad is not for the idea since he does nt drive other car, except his own. *la paniq!!* Kovil’s dad then proposed to call her uncle. Kovil did convince the uncle!!

Woahhh!! We were all three veryyyy happy!! I talkd to daks nd told her dat am coming, nd we’ll meet ther!! Mwa, kovil et pri… we were so excited bout going to that party!! But, it seemed luck was nt wiv us. *wait, i xplain*  The nxt day [Le Gran Jour], i woke up early *miracle* I was so happy!! hihi I already hd a dress..a black dress. I put the music loud nd was singing, dancing. then the fone rang… *sa men dire..pa tro fiT*

It was kovil “Bad news vi. We r not going. My uncle is ill” *Confuzzzzzzzd* Pff… her dad was also ill, nd will not b able to drive. We had car, but no driver!!!! No one was willing to fetch us. *fuff* Since Pri ws working, had to call her to tell her that we nt going. Then, i called daks to tell her am nt coming. Then, miracl miracle, daks sed his bro can giv us a lift *hmmmmm, dats koool* But we’ll have to stay till 22 00. *pa grav* HiHi

So, its ok!! we finally going!! But…we had still loads to face!! At Victoria bus station, we went in the bus..wen we 3 meet, wel..talkin-nonstop. The bus conductor came. Kovil sed “3/4 reduit”.. he replied “kisanla ine dire sa bus la p ale reduit??” *paniq paniq* We were in th wrng bus!! The bus conductor stard scolding us. *gro latet* Nxt bus stop we got down. LOL Finally a bus which is going to Reduit came. At uni, we went in cafe, to wait for daks. Wen she came, she startd narating one of the story [she always make us laugh..] We were going to the Raised plaza. Ther was a group of police officers standing. They were shouting smfing at us which sounded like “fermer” Hmphh..we did nt pay attention. When arivin in front of the entrance, we realised…dat it was closed with sm kinda fencing!! Pffff We had to go back!! O mah God!! they sed “nune dire zot!!”


Wel..dats before the party!! The party was smfing elz!!


hope i did nt bore u!!


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