Life…life shows us so many things..some nice, pleasant, cool..others sad, horrible, hideous.

Can we all accept life as it comes? Like when we see a beggar, should we feel sad about it, or just accept it? I am young, but i have encountered quite a lot of situations [like all of us here], i have seen many things, i have heard many things.

Some have been accepted automatically, like being born in a family which caters for my needs and wants…but some i could not accept, like failing in my AccA paper with 48 marks. That day, i was shocked. But then, i accepted it. Failure is not an excuse to stop…but a challenge to show that i can do it, and i will do it much better next time.

Some of my friends still cannot accept that their x-gf/bf is now with someone else. I totally agree its really hard to digest..  *the person who used to whisper “i love you” in your ears..is now saying the same thing to someone else*  This hurts. But i think that it is better to stop clinging to the past and accept it that s/he has found someone else. It does not necessarily mean that you have to stop loving!! Love should be without conditions.

I once thought that “this is stupid!! How can i accept someone who cheated on me??”  But then i realised, “Well, i have loved and he kinda played with that… So, it aint my fault if i am better!!” 

Sometime, when we accept a situation, its better. Its only then that we can move on!! If we continue complaining, we are clinging to that thing..that very thing we cannot change…

**Vish